How can you stop your break-up or divorce and save it from destruction? And more importantly how do they make your marriage strong? Yes we know that not every marriage is the same and all people are different, but there are certain principles about love, marriage and relationships that stay the same. There are ways to stop making the common mistake that makes break up and divorce imminent, but instead create stronger relationships. Is this possible for you? Of course it is!
Your partner wants out of the relationship or marriage. They have told you that they are not happy and theyve gone as far as telling you that they do not love you anymore. All you can see is a future that is filled with empty days and nights. Sometimes you really feel that you wont live through it.
If you happen to be losing someone who you made a lifetime commitment to, then you will know what a gut wrenching, painful experience it is. It feels as traumatic as a death in the family. It might seem highly unlikely right now to get your husband or wife back, but one thing for sure is no split is definitely forever. It really doesn?t matter your relationship type or your sexuality, if there was love in the relationship you can get it back. If you are constantly saying to yourself that you need to know how to get your partner back then you must read this. I can show you how.
When a relationship ends your world crashes around you and you feel you just can?t go on but you must and you will. You?ve probably got on all of your friend?s nerves because of the constant going on and on about your situation, and all they ask is: "Are you still going on about this? I would have thought that you would have gotten over this by now!" You might feel that when they say this, they do not care. The truth is, they do care, but they don?t understand, and they quite honestly do not know what to do.
For now you need to change your mindset and take a positive attitude that will carry you through the pain. How do you deal with your relationship breaking down? Be the first to apologise in your relationship and be happy with the situation. You will immediately feel a change in the atmosphere. How does this work? At first this might seem like a mad thing to do, presenting yourself as a door mat to get walked over. After all why should we give them anything? Whether youre in the wrong or in the right, and no matter what has happened, your relationship is fixable. Although this tip does initially seem counter-intuitive, it contains within it the single most powerful method for improving the quality of your relationships and also finding more happiness in life.
If you?re looking for some quick tips on saving your relationship, or stopping your divorce, you have come to THE right place.
Chances are, you?ve probably spent a lot of money on professional counselling services, or you?ve taken advice from friends and relatives and you feel that they do not know what it feels like, or you?ve read other books and bits of information from other organizations, websites and people to help you get what you want. These might be excellent books and tips giving great advice, however the techniques given here actually work quickly and not just in theory. If you have listened to advice from anyone else and so far nothing has worked, here are a few tips that will turn things round for you.
To really cement your relationship I have written a small but very powerful book which not only tells you what to do, and not do, to make things better but will also show you why and how the techniques work. I also give you the EXACT words to say, and I also tell you when to say them. And I also tell you how to say them. Yes, that?s right, I give you the EXACT words to say to get your partner to come back to you, even if you think you have no chance. Below, I also have some free FIRST STAGE instructions that could turn your situation round.
You must never do this. We have all done it, and it never works. My recommendation is not to promise that you?ll change. The trouble is, the more you try this, the worse your situation becomes because you are pushing them away. Even if you really mean to change, things have probably become so bad in the relationship that this will sound like a desperate promise that you don?t mean and are just saying to make them change their mind.
So what does work? There?s not much you can say to show your ex partner that you intend to change. In that case there really is no point in saying anything. If you know that there is a need for you to change, don?t tell them that you will change, just change! Actions speak louder than words. Don?t make promises, just do what you?re supposed to do with your partner and do the things you need to do without paying any lip service.
Arguing and trying to get your partner to see your point of view is probably the worst thing you can do. Let?s be honest, in a break up they don?t want to see your point of view. You will be tempted with the urge to defend yourself with regards to what you might have said or with regards what you did. You might even throw the blame somewhere else, but one thing is for certain, the more you argue the more they will argue back or they will leave. If you take a negative course of action they will do the same. You might even win the argument (Hooray!), but you will not save the? Read?more?
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